Now, things are getting weird. Despite myself, I really like him. Should I even be considering meeting him? Do I tell my friend? There is nothing like knowing you gave it your best shot to settle the mind, kick back in your recliner and absently stroke your cat. No, that is not a euphemism.
There is no one-size-fits-all appropriate response to when you find your closest compadre has been shacking up with your ex. But, let's be real. Sometimes, people hook up with those in their inner circle. If your friend hooks up with your ex, you may have know more, check out the following tips on how to be the best possible friend to someone who's coming out.
How you break the news is completely up to you. Understand your friend is probably going to be upset and it might take its toll on your friendship for a while, but if you two are really good friends, they will look beyond the fact that the woman you care about is their ex, see her as the person who makes you happiest, and be happy for you. On a personal level I have a strong enough bond and complete opposite tastes of my best friend so I have never come close to even fantasizing about hooking up with an ex-boyfriend of hers. Do you want the lie or the truth?
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However, if you are friends with somebody, and you hook up with their ex, you have just put your friendship in jeopardy. People may argue that it depends on how long your friend has dated their ex. What difference does the length of their relationship make? If they were in a relationship, they more than likely shared some real feelings with each other.